Which Would You Choose? Napa Valley

My first big trip of the year is marked on my calendar in ink! At the end of February, I am headed to San Francisco and Napa with my sister and my niece to celebrate my sister's birthday. In the midst of a seemingly never ending cold snap, I look at the Instagram pictures of those of you fortunate enough to live in California and I just drool with envy. To say that I cannot wait for this girls' getaway would be an understatement, to say the least!
 

So today, for a little escape, let's pretend you could be magically transported to Napa for an all expenses paid girls' escape - four days filled with wine, delicious food, beautiful scenery and lots of laughter...which would you choose?? 
 Nature and relaxation abound in the quiet spa setting of Calistoga Ranch...
Classic Napa elegance with a Michelin 3* restaurant are the stars at Meadowood Napa Valley...
 There is something for everyone at the family friendly resort setting of The Carneros Inn...
The signature Relais & Chateaux combination of elegance, service and great food are the orders of the day at Auberge du Soleil...
With just five rooms overlooking the Napa Valley, only the lucky few score reservations at the elegant and exclusive Poetry Inn...
Walking or biking distance to French Laundry, Bouchon and many wineries in Yountville, there is no need for a designated driver at the eco-luxury Bardessono Hotel...
SO...there you have it...which is your favorite? Or would you decide on a combination of these stunning hotels which are spread throughout the valley?
Since I know many of you have been to Napa before, please feel free to share  your favorite wineries for visiting, delicious restaurant recommendations and any other "must see" places in the Napa area.
Cheers!